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As you consider starting a search for family members, there are several things to remember:

  • Adoption law and regulations differ from country to country, state to state and, in some states, from county to county. These laws and regulations address the age at which an adoptee can receive information, who can request information, how, and what types of information are available.
  • Alabama, Alaska, Kansas, and Oregon are "open records" states where adoptees can receive original birth and possibly other adoption information on request. Some other states have provisions to release original birth and/or adoption information with restrictions.
  • When requesting information, start with the state where the adoption was finalized and not in the state where the adoptee was born, if different.
  • It's wise to know why you're searching and be as emotionally prepared as possible since your very first steps may result in contact, or your search could last for years with the possibility of never producing results.
  • Unfortunately, there have been cases of people contacting searching adoptees and birthparents claiming to be their parent, child, or sibling when this is not the case. Be aware that this can happen.
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Andrew Christensen - 2 years ago
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I am looking for my birth family; mom, dad and possible siblings. I am a male, born January 23, 1972 in Ramsey county of St. Paul Minnesota. On my birth certificate, there is no hospital listed. Immediately after my birth, I was placed in a lutheran or presbyterian orphanage until the age of 9 months, when I was adopted by my parents. It was told to me that my birth mother was in her teens when she got pregnant with me and was sent away to Minnesota to give birth, before returning home. I have no information on my birth father. The information I have is very little. I attempted to request information on my birth mother by St. Paul's city records, but the adoption was closed and no information was able to be given. I've hit a wall on where to go next. I would like to know who my birth mom is, if I have siblings and how to get into contact with them. Any help or guidance would mean the world to me. Thanks. #1
scott - 1 month ago
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I was adopted at birth , with a brother who was 5 years older then me and was also adopted. . We were born in different states..I never really gave it much thought while growing up but as I get older it gets harder to ignore. My adoptive parents told me I was adopted at a very young age.they gave me some information about biological mother which is not absolutely correct..about a year ago I saw my original birth certificate, on that I was given a first name that I was not even aware of..my mom told me she told me all of that. .I think I would have remembered a detail like that..I guess my question is , if anyone could give me a place to start..all original records that I have give me no useful information that I can find...there are so many companies that say they can help..I don't want to be taken advantage of in the process..I live with en 50 miles of my birth hospital. .I am not sure how even telling this can help...any ideas ?? Thank you for taking time to read..scott #2
Rebecca - 2 months ago
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My mother was born in 1919, adopted just a few days after birth. She passed away in 2006. I am searching for information on her biological parents, who have certainly also passed away by now - if her biological mother was a mere 13 yrs. of age when she gave birth, she would be 110 yrs. old now (highly doubtful). My goals are 1. to find their names and ancestors, as well as 2. possible to connect with other children born to my maternal biological mother, or her grandchildren. Arkansas Bureau of Vital Statistics insists that no records can be released until 100 yrs. after my mother's birth - 2019. Any help in finding information before then would be most helpful! #3
Alex - 2 years ago
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I am looking for my birth family. I was born September 09, 1985 in Sarasota, Florida at Sarasota Memorial Hospital. Mother is known to have blonde/reddish hair and blue eyes, average build, short, and around 20 years of age. Father I do not have information on. I am looking to find them and see if I have any siblings, I think I deserve to known and they should know they have grand children/nephews. Would be good to know my medical background. I really want to find out what my bio family is like. I feel like there is a piece of me missing. Please help. #4
Nikki - 1 month ago
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I have found out that I have a half sister, I do not know her name but her mothers name was Leslie and my fathers name was Robert. They were divorced in 1972, I believe she was born in NY and from what I was told her mothers father owned a construction company. The last name is not common at all it is Piekart. This is a long shot I don't know how old she is or her name but I would really love to see what she looks like #5
Stephen Lee (Propps -adopted last name) - 2 months ago
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I found out recently that I have a twin sister. That I was born in Newport News, Virginia. My adopted mother will not share any info. Did find out birth mother was a Shirley Rouse. I need to locate the hospital in which we were born. I want to find my sister. #6
Jill Ferrell-Gray - 19 hours ago
I'm looking for my birth parents or any siblings. Due to the fact my daughter was born in kidney failure 23 years ago. There are no medical records for my grandchildren to be able to correlate back on. And the doctors always have been looking for key factors to my daughter's kidney disease. I was born July 4, 1967 @3:13PM-WEIGHED 9 LBS 13 OUNCES in Wheeling Hospital in Wheeling, WV 26003. I was so huge the doctor had to break my collarbone to deliver me. It's difficult never knowing where you came from. Who u look like. And also all the medical information not given. #7
Arice - 5 days ago
I am 48, have 3 children, 2 boys age 25 and 22 and a daughter of 11. My husband left me last year after 25 years of marriage (he turned 50). It has been the most difficult year of my life, but full of lessons about myself and what life and marriage are all about. I am passionate about marriage and i didn't give up on my husband. Am Arice Stringer by name and resides in USA and here is my Cell number 1 (772)-7745-454. I entered online in search of advice on how i can amend my marriage while i was at work. I saw so many positive reviews and nice feed back about how a Doctor called Osemu Okpamen has been wonderful with his spells. I gave a shot to make contact with him via his Email and he assured me that my marriage will be peaceful and i believed in his words. 16 hours after he finished preparing the spell for me, my husband came back home pleading and now, we are living peacefully again. Get in contact with him if you need any help via E-mail: xxxx, web #8
Aireen Williams - 1 week ago
God bless Dr.Osas for his marvelous work in my life, I was diagnosed of HIV since 2014 and I was taking my medications, I wasn’t satisfied i needed to get the HIV out of my system, I searched about some possible cure for HIV i saw a comment about (xxxx) how he cured HIV with his herbal medicine, I contacted him and he guided me. I asked for solutions, he started the remedy for my health, he sent me the medicine through UPS SPEED POST. I took the medicine as prescribed by him and 14 days later i was cured from HIV, Dr.osas truly you are great, do you need his help also? Why don’t you contact him through his WHATSAPP NUMBER xxxxx252378.. : or you can also reach him on email address, xxxx #9
Renee - 1 week ago
I am looking for my older half brother adopted at birth. My mom told me she had him when she was 18 years old. He was born on her 18th birthday. He was born 08/20/1946. My mom told me he was born in Seattle, Washington. I don't know his birth father's name. But my mom did say he was in the U. S. Navy. My mom (his birth mom) is dead, She died 10/28/1995. She was born on 08/20/1928, she was not married when she had my half brother. Her maiden name was Townsend. My mom told me when I was in my 30's , I am 59 years old almost 60 years old. I will be 60 years old on 09/09/16. My half brother is 69 years old, he will be 70 years old on 08/20/16. I 4 other brothers, 3 are older then me and 1 is younger then me. #10
Tina Ginter - 2 weeks ago
I am 44 years old and my family finally told me the family secret that I was adopted at 3 days old. I was Born on January 21, 1972 in Virginia Beach General Hospital Virginia Beach Virginia. I was told my Birth Mom was very young and that she was crafty, she had made me a string art picture to go with me. I never seen it. I was told because I was having some medical issues, I would like to know what my blood line does carry, but also if I have any siblings or if they want to meet me. I had a phone call about 10 years ago from a lady, she asked me if i was Tina Ginter I said Yes and she said are you adopted, I said NO and dont call me again. At that time I had no clue or thought in my head of ever considering I was adopted, my family was good not to leak it at all. I regret not asking her her name or info. I am searching for my sealed records now and Im hoping to have names soon so this will be easier, for now I am going on all websites hoping they will come across this, ya never know! #11
Kathy - 3 weeks ago
State of Kansas, Kathy - 0 seconds ago I have a brother that was given up for adoption at birth. My Mothers name is Dora she was single and told she already had too many children at that time 4 girls. He is a approximately a year younger than me. I was born in 1962 and really would love to find him. He is the only son my Mother had. She has always regretted letting them talk her into giving him up. She's is going to be 81 this year and for her to see him before she passes would bring her happpiness. I know he was adopted in State of KS to a pastor named George #12
Emma Gibson - 4 weeks ago
My name is Emma, I went to Dr. Lee about 2 weeks ago as I was desperate after my MAN of 4years, just left, no note, no text, no explanation, I was in pieces, I contacted Dr. Lee via http://ancientfathersandmothers.com and within a few minutes of talking to him I felt much better, I knew as soon as I started talking with him that he would and indeed could help me, I talked all my situation through with him and he began working for me. I have to say, hand on heart, the next morning when I woke up, I felt great, as if a great weight had been lifted off my shoulders, I phoned Dr. Lee via xxxxx and he said he wasn't surprised as he had done a working that night, and something had "lifted" already from me, well, again, hand on heart, things in my life went from strength to strength after I spoke with Alex and I listened to his advise and he began work for me, it took a few days to bring Glenn back, but it worked and I can't thank him enough and now we are living together as one big #13
leanne - 4 weeks ago
I am searching for a man named William/Bill I know it's a long shot but worth a try Bill/ William served as a solider with his brother who are both American Bill went back to America but his brother stayed and married my grandmother's sister from Sheffield England I'm not sure if Bill/ William knew but while he had a short romance while being in the UK he actually got my grandmother pregnant with my mum I am looking for this man as he is my grandad and I would like to find him and tell him he has a grand daughter #14
Jenna - 1 month ago
Hello, my name is jenna. Jennifer smith. In 1997 I adopted a girl out, we call her baby Jenna. But I do believe her birth parents named her Mariah. That name was the name of the birth mothers mother who died after I gave birth to baby jenna. She was born July 2nd 1997. The next day adopted mother had to fly to Florida for her mother's open heart surgery, who didn't make it. I have been trying to get in touch with the family because it's open adoption, and the adoption agency won't help me. My email is xxxx. please if you are her email me Jenna #15
Roxann - 1 month ago
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My first son was born on May 29th, 1972 in Denver, Colorado. His birth name is Keith Charlton Stoddard. He was adopted by a woman who went by the name of Judy Mae Lee, husband Kurt? He was adopted in Los Angeles, CA. I was 16 yrs when I had him. I tried my best for 16 mths with no family, no help. I have his outfit and blanket I brought him home in. Not a day goes by that I don't ache for him. How I wish I could meet him and say I'm sorry I couldn't care for you alone at 16. I think he was renamed Kevin Lee or Kevin Jerome Lee. #16
Donielle - 2 months ago
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I'm looking for my half-brother who I'm actually only 85% sure exists. It's been a rumor in my family for as long as I can remember. From what I know is that he was born in Korea along the DMZ between 1xxxxx. He would be half-white/half-korean, born to woman who may or may not have been a prostitute with a soldier for a father who had a damaged eye. I know it seems like a long shot, especially since all we know is that his name is probably Kim but I would love to find him if he exists. I can't get anymore information out of my father for right now. From what I've been told it's most likely that he was probably given up for adoption due to being bi-racial. #17
Jana - 2 months ago
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I think I have a sibling I don't know about. My father was in an air force training facility in Wisconsin around 1974 or 75. My siblings mother would be from there. My mother just told me today, that before they divorced he had been served with papers about a paternity suit but would not discuss the details with her. They divorced sometime afterward. Apparently it's a big secret and no one in my family knows of it. But he is now deceased. And I would like to know my big brother or sister. Hopefully he or she would like to know me. As soon as I got off the phone with her, I googled how to find a sibling and that led me to here. So, if You're out there I want to meet you! I don't know how this site works out how you'd contact me. I guess I'll figure that out. #18
Chris Wolfe - 2 months ago
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I am searching in hopes to reunite someday with my half brother. My mom posted on here back in 2004 this was her post:8/29/68 looking for son My name is Kathleen A. Gibbons Wolfe. My son was born in St. Vincents Maternity Home, West Philadelphia. His date of bith was 8/29/68. My father has recently told me that my son who I named Mark Anthony Gibbons might have been placed to a couple in NJ. Saint Vincents Maternity home has been closed. The records are at Holy Family Center, 227 N 18th St., Philadelphia, PA 19103. I am working thru getting all the waivers of confidentiality signed with the home and PA Division of Vital Records and with The Holy Family Center. If you can be of any help please respond. It is very difficult knowing that I have no rights. I pray he is looking for me. It is his right if he wants to find me that he be given the necessary information June 7,2004 7:40 pm. My mom is the sweetest lady on the planet, her father supervised the decision. #19
kristin thorne - 2 months ago
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I know iam adopted everyone has lied to me about this I need to know ware to start. I need to now how to open a sealed adoption. but if my name and whole identity is false witch I know it is how do i go about this. Right now searching for my father and mother is not what im wanting right now I need to find out about the adoption and why all the lies told to me. I have herd of black marketing babies and so many horrible stories about adoptions, on my Birth Certificates my birthdate is September 29th 1969 I was born in San Gabriel Clif. but I know that was false information told to me .I just need someone who knows what I need to do to help me find closure in my life please . my email is xxxx thank you #20
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