Online Guide to Adoption Search & Reunion

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The purpose of this guide is to educate, to provide a detailed view of not only the search process, but also the reunion process, and to equip the reader with knowledge to help in understanding the intricacies involved. It explores the means, methods, and motivations of search and reunion, and also the emotional impact that often follows.

Table of Contents

PART 1 - The Search

1. Considering a Search
   • Introduction
   • Who, When, and Why Search
   • How Many Search?
   • Who Does Not Search?
   • Fears and Expectations
   • Popular Myths About Searching
   • Legal Implications of a Search
   
   
2. Preparation for a Search
   • Deal with Emotional Issues
   • Possible Outcomes of Search
   • Get Organized
   • Clear your Plate
   
   
3. Beginning A Search
   • Take Precautions
   • Get the Word Out
   • Check the Laws in Your State
   • Get Your Non ID and Put Waivers in Your File
   • Choose a Search Method
   • Assemble Your Support Team
   
   
4. Resources and How to Use Them
   • Work With a Map
   • Tips on Using the Internet
   • Tips for Dealing with Bureaucrats
   • Use a Library
   
   
5. Databases and Documents
   • Helpful Documents and Resources
   • Hitting a Brick Wall
   
   
6. Specialized Searches
   • Black Market Searches
   • International Searches
   • American Indian Searches

PART 2 - The Reunion

7. How to Begin a Reunion
   • Preparation for Reunion
   • Making the First Contact
   • First Face-to-Face
   
   
8. Emotional Growth, Healing and Recovery
   • Emotions that Surface at Reunion
   • Tasks at Reunion
   
   
9. The Dynamics of Reunion
   • Stages of Reunion
   • Building a Relationship
   • Other Outcomes
   • Conclusion

Appendix A – Search Resources by State

Appendix B – Sample Documents & Letters

Appendix C – Miscellaneous Links

Appendix D – Book List

Glossary of Words & Terms

About the Author

© Excerpted from the Adoption.com Guide to Search and Reunion, published by Adoption Media, LLC

Credits: Jan Baker

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